“Watch your thoughts…”

“Watch your thoughts, they become your words…”

Many of us have heard or seen Lao Tzu’s timeless reminder:

“Watch your thoughts, they become words; watch your words, they become actions; watch your actions, they become habits; watch your habits, they become character; watch your character, it becomes your destiny.”

Our thoughts start it all… Thoughts are the first and initiating action that shapes the lens which we see the world through. Helping uncover the possibilities of which we seek!

Do we look for opportunities… or only challenges? Do we search for gratitude… or dwell on negatives? Do we notice the blessings… or focus on the stresses? 

Our thoughts are powerful!

Think about this example: when you’ve fallen in love with and are interested in buying a certain car. Suddenly you start seeing that make and model on the roads, on the dealership lots or in the parking garage - the car is on your mind and it is grabbing your attention. Typically, the cars were always around, but your awareness shifted. 

The same is true with our beliefs & thoughts. What we focus on, we begin to notice more of.

Every thought we hold becomes the filter for our words, interactions, choices, our relationships, and ultimately, our future. When we choose optimism, hope, gratitude, and blessings, we don’t just change our mindset - we systematically start to change our character and destiny.

I love wrestling with my thoughts in solitude and the quiet - the beginning of the day, in God’s creation or in a trusted conversation.

What are your thoughts leading you toward today?

-Bradie

Pic: Badlands Summer 2025… Some great scenery in SD to think and reflect.