66 Years

A few weeks ago as I was choosing what canned soup to grab Rachel, my wife, when I noticed an older gentleman puzzled and walking up and down the aisle.  I asked him how he was doing and if I could help with anything… He said he was looking for pork and beans. 

He went on to tell me his wife historically had done the grocery shopping and she died three months prior, after 66 years of marriage. He said the store now felt unfamiliar without her and I could sense the emotions welling up in him.

He could have focused only on how different things felt or how difficult things had been, but instead he called out his gratitude for their 66 years together and all the good times they shared.

This moment made me pause and brought three simple reminders to my mind:

•  Small moments matter… Everyday routines hold the shape of our lives.

•  Enjoy the simple and ordinary… Mundane days with family, colleagues or teammates are where memories are made.

• Gratitude and grief can coexist... Emotions are complex - you can feel both loss and thankfulness at the same time.

This week, tell someone you care about something you’re grateful for involving them. Brief acts of kindness, gratitude or appreciation can change both your days!

-Bradie